regarding the trans issue.

i believe there’s some very straightforward steps to resolve it. but many won’t like it.

if u think about girls/women, what is the thing that makes them valuable?

their femininity, their beauty, their nature of being soft & nurturing.

girls have great power over men, despite almost always being physically weaker.

why? because straight men want to fuck them but also because we desire those feminine qualities.

because of this, girls get de facto protective treatment by all men.

since i was 5, i was told to never hit a girl if you’re MtF, you were for sure taught the same thing.

but even on a social level, we don’t demand competence and strength from girls. we’re socialised to be gentler, to provide strength to them. this fact took me a lot of time to contend with in my autistic mind. i would always treat girls like guys, and even when they demanded that i do that, it was never what they wanted. it was never the rule. the contradiction is that girls are a protected class, and are so protected, they don’t even know it.

most normal girls dont realise they get very special treatment, yet it’s the rule of the social contract.

BUT there are situations where girls break the social contract. it’s happening a lot now, which is why so many people are lonely and partnerless. And in these situations, girls lose girl status, and become de facto men.

this is the situation for trans girls.

protesting and demanding rights makes sense, but without this part, it’s silly because by being feminine and beautiful, u get girl treatment.

and a lot of trans girls are in the crossdresser category. tall, ugly, repulsive, man, wearing redlipstick. have u ever seen the way a guy treats a fat girl? or an ugly girl? she becomes a bro. shes not even considered a girl anymore. very rapidly, she loses her right to be viewed as a true female. and these are literally biologically female girls.

normal girls face this everyday; it’s why theyre so insecure. you’re not feminine enough, you lose your girl status. you break the social contract

but when you adhere, guys will kill other guys for you. guys who dont even know you. guys will buy and spend and protect your space for you.

the threat people feel is that men dressed as girls are invading their spaces. the worst thing for trans rights, is arguing along the lines of sports and toilets. because u have what looks like men invading the spaces of girls.

it’s fighting small battles like these that have HUGE consequences for the optics of transrights when what u really want is for people to accept these soft and gentle girls, allowing them to be free to be who they want to be.

back in 2017, ud be a laughing stock if u told a friend u watched transporn today, mbappe, the famous footballer, publically dated a trans girl and people care, but not that much. guys will tell u off for being actually homophobic. things have improved a lot. i would even date a transgirl now; i would introduce her to my family, and that would be unthinkable 5 years ago.

the real battle is in being perceived as a girl. u have to remember, trans rights is a culture war now. and everytime someone sees a headline about it, it’s some big hulking dude in a dress.

Now imagine this. A guy turns on the tv to a trans march, and it’s all reasonably beautiful girls… he’s gonna turn off the tv and join the march himself. he’s gonna want to support these girls

straight guys need to want to fuck most transgirls, and then all the issues dissolve. thats literally how it works for girls in the real world. beautiful girls can get anything out of men

so u have to truly embody being a girl in every way possible, and that goes far beyond just hrt and picking tshirts from the girl’s section. it’s body language, it’s certain mental manipulation tactics. a light girlish flirtation. it’s the full gamut of the feminine spectrum. and i’ve seen trans girls who do it very well; ones who’ve succeeded.

reading this, u can view it as a deeply mean and sad assessment of human relationships. man bad blah blah but remember, even i had to change myself to adhere. i had to observe that i was bleeding masculinity, and i had to fix it. remember that age when all the boys gradually adapted how they moved across a room, how they talked in the company of the ladies, how they dressed, how much they went to the gym,

all because we play a role in a wider world

theres another angle too, though.

that u want to be viewed as a separate third category, like an intersex category. that means u just want to be accepted as a human being, without having to adhere to any kind of social contract, or perhaps even create your own.

this one feels counter to what trans women want; im dont believe they want to be the “other” for the rest of their lives.

as i’ve observed and been told, trans women are bidomal, so either a dumb fuck, or wicked smart. two extremes where unfortunately i dont see the majority being willing to find a compromise that involves adhering to the standards of people in the middle of the bell curve.

now theres another angle

if, as a trans woman, u could take a pill that reorganised your brain chemistry to feel good in your male body, would you do it? because it would solve all these issues without the pain of reengineering yourself